The utilization of excellent family style cultural resources is of great significance in promoting family and social harmony. This paper collects a large number of family training texts as well as excellent traditional family style family cases in Anhui Province as data samples. LDA theme model and Bert large-scale pre-training model are used to downscale the text data, calculate the probability of the theme distribution of words and assign corresponding weights, classify the themes involved in the text of family training, and construct a family style theme network. Based on the calculation of statistical indexes such as centrality of point degree of social network analysis method, the influence theme of modern conversion and development of excellent traditional family culture is mined, and the conversion and development path on the basis of research is proposed. After the study, it is determined that the text of Anhui family training mainly involves four major categories of themes, namely, cultivating oneself, governing one’s studies, unifying one’s family, and governing one’s country, with the weights of 0.21, 0.32, 0.25, and 0.22 in that order. And among the themes under the major categories of themes, erudition and cultural inheritance are the 2 themes that should be paid the most attention to for the modern conversion and development, with the importance of 0.216 and 0.171. Based on the characteristics of the themes, it is possible to design the cultural and creative activities and promote the modernization and development of Anhui’s excellent traditional family tradition culture from the living heritage.